• Vince Gill

    “Thanks Marsala. Amy and I loved the story you did about us. Looking forward to meeting you the next time I come to Las Vegas.”

    Vince Gill
  • Rob Thomas

    “No matter what you do there has to be an evolution so that you become a newer, better version of who you are.” – Rob Thomas

    Rob Thomas
  • Anthony Hopkins

    He extended his hand and said, “Hi I’m Tony,” with a soft, very familiar British accent that was surprisingly warm and friendly.

    Anthony Hopkins
  • Nate Berkus

    “Marsala, Thank you sincerely for what is, without a doubt, one of my all time favorite features. With Love and Affection, Nate”

    Nate Berkus
  • Suze Orman

    “Marsala, your article is the best one ever written about me!”

    Suze Orman
  • Barry Manilow

    “Marsala, your interview is the best I’ve ever read about me in my entire career. It’s my dream interview! You are really something. Thanks so much for this. I’d frame it, but I haven’t got enough wall space. Love, Barry”

    Barry Manilow
  • Dave Koz

    “Marsala, my sincere gratitude. You are a wonderful interviewer. I now see why everyone has talked with you.” – Dave

    Dave Koz
  • Lionel Richie

    “Wow, wow, wow, Marsala, these are great questions!” – Lionel Richie

    Lionel Richie
  • Priscilla Presley

    “Marsala, I enjoyed our conversation so much, it was as if I was talking to one of my friends. For me to expose myself to someone I have never met says a lot about you.”

    Priscilla Presley
  • Cindy & Carlos Santana

    “Dearest Marsala, I feel so grateful and deeply moved by the consciousness in which you wrote this article about us. Thank you from the center of my heart.” – Carlos Santana

    Cindy & Carlos Santana
  • Faith Hill & Tim McGraw

    “Tim and I talked about you after the interviews. It was great! We never talk to anyone in the press as long as we talked with you.”

    Faith Hill & Tim McGraw

Lionel Richie: Wow, Wow, Wow!

Lionel Richie - Up Close & Personal with Celebrity Scribe Marsala Rypka

When I think of weddings, I can’t help but think of Lionel Richie. The reason is because when I got married in 1983 (I’m blessed to be married to the same man for 27 years) the first song my husband, Steven and I danced to was a Lionel Richie song. Actually, that’s not exactly right. I couldn’t make up my mind between “Endless Love” and “Truly,” so much to my husband’s dismay, I chose both songs. Needless to say it was a long first dance.

Flash forward to April 9, 2010. I’m scheduled to interview Lionel for the June “Wedding” issue of Luxury Las Vegas magazine and I’m hoping that he will be as wonderful as I imagine, or else memories of my wedding day will be tainted.

Everything is set and then I get a phone call pushing the interview back to the following week.  No problem. I understand celebrities have very busy lives and anything can happen at the last minute to change their plans. Now we’re scheduled to talk on April 16, the very day Lionel is supposed to arrive in New York from Geneva, Switzerland.

That worries me. Anyone who’s ever flown international (Many years ago I was a TWA International flight attendant) knows about flight delays and jet lag, and I wonder if the interview will actually take place.

I expected a delay or jet lag, but never, and I mean never, in my wildest dreams did I think that on April 16, 2010, an enormous, menacing cloud of volcanic ash from Iceland would blanket much of the sky across northern and central Europe, causing thousands of international flights to be canceled.

As reported in the New York Times, there was chaos as people traveling within Europe did everything they could to get to their destinations. Some took trains, some took buses, and some rented cars; while those who had to cross the Atlantic had to just sit tight and wait.

LIFE LESSON: When unexpected things happen in life, it doesn’t help to panic or get angry. Hope for the best and be prepared for the worst. Do what you can to remedy the situation and find a solution. If it’s out of your hands, then all you can do is change your attitude. Accept what’s happening and go with the flow.

Of all days for a volcano to spew ash, I thought. As it turned out Lionel’s personal assistant, Michael called me and said that their flight had been delayed, their route had changed, but thankfully their plane was one of the last allowed to leave Europe.

He said  the interview would have to be pushed back a couple of hours, but that it would definitely happen. If I loved Lionel Richie before, I TRULY loved him even more now!

Sure enough at the appointed time, that recognizable voice came on the line. “Well, we’ve only been trying to do this forever,” Lionel joked. “I thought maybe you’d start to think I didn’t exist.”

We were off to a great start. So far the wonderful memories of my wedding day were still intact.

Lionel Richie and I were like two old friends having the most amazing, relaxed conversation. From the moment we said, “Hello” until we hung up two hours later it was “Easy Like Sunday Morning.” No pun intended but I could have talked with him “All Night Long.”

He has such a sensitivity about people and the world in general. Recently I found this music video from his 1984 hit, “Hello,” and by the time it ended I had tears in my eyes. I think it speaks volumes about who he is.

If you take the time to read his interview, I think it will touch your heart as it touched mine. He spoke about being a small boy living across the street from the Tuskegee University campus in Alabama. It was there that he enjoyed an amazing childhood surrounded by black bourgeois intellectuals, including the Tuskegee Airmen, America’s first black military airmen. He shared stories about racism and bigotry and how the end of the Civil Rights movement affected his way of life.

He talked about what fills him with passion and what makes him angry. With great reverence he spoke of his parents and other people who have influenced his life like Quincy Jones and Berry Gordy. He was candid about the challenges of being Nicole Richie’s father but it was quite clear that he adores her as well as his other two children, Sofia and Miles. and it was obvious that he is delighted at being a grandfather.

He talked about how music can bridge the gap between cultures on opposite sides of the world and how people who don’t speak English know the words to his songs.

He talked about his most treasured material possessions and with much self-deprecating humor, his greatest strength and his greatest weakness.

When I asked him who he would trade places with for 24 hours, he said, “Wow, wow, wow, what a great question.”

This man who sings the most romantic love songs in the world talked about what things to look for in a life partner and what it takes to have a happy and enduring marriage.

He spoke of many things including the end of Michael Jackson’s life and what lies ahead in his future. And of course he talked about “We Are the World,” the anthem for humanity that he and Michael co-created.

Coincidentally, a short time after the magazine came out with Lionel’s interview, he was performing for two nights at Caesars Palace. I took my friends Thomas and Deborah to see the show and beforehand we were invited backstage to say hi. I was excited to meet Lionel face-to-face and once again I wasn’t disappointed. He greeted me with a big smile and an even bigger hug. He said he loved the article and we laughed and talked for about ten minutes before we were escorted to our seats only moments before he walked out on the stage and rocked the house.

There were over 4,000 people at The Colosseum that night, yet Lionel created such a feeling of intimacy, as if he was entertaining you in his living room. It didn’t matter if he was sitting at the piano singing a Commodore ballad like “Ballerina Girl,” “Penny Lover,” “Sail On,” “Three Times a Lady;” or if he was bringing the crowd to their feet with something upbeat like “Running with the Night. The songs went on and on and every one was a hit.

I’m always looking for the gift in my interaction with people, because everyone brings something to the table. Reflecting on my conversation with Lionel, one of the things that most impressed me is how fully present he was. He was engaged as well as engaging. He was open and authentic.

LIFE LESSON: Be with people in a way that you would like them to be with you. Are you warm and friendly or do you put walls up that no one can penetrate? Do you ask questions and show an interest in what others are doing or do you hold back and wait for someone else to initiate the conversation? Even worse, is the conversation always about you?

I will always cherish the memories I have of my time with Lionel. Even more important, I am grateful that the memories I have of my wedding day are “Still” just as wonderful.

Read my interview with Lionel Richie that appeared in Luxury Las Vegas magazine.

Did You Know?

Many of my interviews, including Up Close and Personal and feature articles, can be found on the Interviews page.




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Discussion

  1. WOW, is right!! I *love* these articles – “Up Close and Personal” PLUS your musings – fantastic!! Love the new website, too. Great job!! I can’t wait to read more…

  2. Stacey Byham says:

    I love the insider tidbits you share that take us, your readers, beyond the interview. How cool that you’ve started this blog! There’s obviously so much more to glean from your “conscious conversations” with these fascinating folk. Thank you for sharing! I want more!

  3. Every question, every thought that goes into your interviews, and the magic that happens when you somehow get people to open their hearts to say things, ponder things and share things makes your writing so wonderful to read, discover and learn from. You are a beautiful and gifted person. I can hardly wait for your book so that I can gift it to others who mean so much to me!

  4. Great article! Love the picture! You both look fabulous!

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